Dear Freshman Me,
To the freshman currently navigating these hallways for the first time, take a deep breath and realize that you are at the starting line of a very chaotic, beautiful journey. If I could go back and talk to my younger self, I’d tell you to start making as many friends as possible, but don’t be terrified when some of those connections naturally fade away. High school is a period of massive growth, and as you evolve, your circle will too. Understand that failure isn’t a dead end but rather a privilege. It is the best teacher you will ever have. Don’t let the fear of a “mess” hinder your potential because, as the old saying goes, you really do miss one hundred percent of the shots you don’t take.
While you’re chasing those opportunities, please remember to go easy on yourself. It is vital to spend time educating yourself and striving for excellence—ultimately, that hard work leads to scholarships and recognition—but don’t let the pursuit of perfection consume you. It is mathematically impossible to reach perfection because we are human, and putting that level of stress on your shoulders is rarely just. Instead of worrying about being the best, focus on being curious. Talk to people you wouldn’t normally approach. Don’t be afraid to ask the “dumb” questions in class. Your teachers and the counseling staff, like Mrs. Lowenbach and Andrew Walls are there specifically to help you navigate these choices.
Your high school years should be spent “building lore.” Go to the concert, take the hike, and say yes to the random weekend hangouts. Don’t wait to get your license, but at the same time, take calculated risks and prioritize your safety. Simultaneously, find a way to apply yourself in the community. Getting a job early on looks incredible on a resume and helps you build a sense of independence. Having your own cash for those experiences means you aren’t leaning on your parents as much, which is a major step toward adulthood. If you aren’t sure what you want to do for a career, use that time to intern or volunteer in fields that pique your interest. Networking might sound like a corporate, annoying word, but it really just means talking to people to see what advice they can offer.
As you move through these four years, your ideas and aspirations for the future will inevitably change. Do not be discouraged or disappointed in yourself if you suddenly realize you don’t know where you want to be. Use the resources around you, especially the alphabetically organized counseling staff who have seen it all before. When it comes to extracurriculars, join a club where you can actually win or achieve something tangible. Once you start piling up those wins, it shows you were active and engaged. However, try not to quit things the moment they get boring. Staying with a program for a long time makes you look reliable to colleges and employers. Take the initiative now and start building the life you want today.
